Enjoyed your book tremendously. It was nostalgic all the way. My parents always played your Dad's (and Frank's) albums. We knew all the words by heart. My dad was handsome and had that same look, so we used to call him Dino! We would also always look forward to Thursday evenings to watch you Dad's show. What talent! They just don't make talent like that anyone. He was one of a kind. I listen to your Dad's CD's in my car and it takes me back in time! Thank YOU for the wonderful memories! Your Dad was a wonderful person and will live on forever! Thanks again!

Sincerely,
Eloise

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Hi Deana,

I want to say that I love your book and get sentimental when I read it.

Thank you,
Frances

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Hi Deana,

I don’t have a question I just had to commend you on an amazing read. I’m 37 years old and have been a huge fan of your Father since I was 7 once I finished your book I missed reading it and had to start reading it again. It is that wonderful. I also wanted to let you know that my wife and I recently had our first baby after years of trying and we named him Dean. We hope he grows up to be as special as your Dad.
Thanks for sharing your life, your stories and most of your entire father with the world.

P.S. Will you be coming to New York? I would love to introduce you to My Dean.

Continued Success,
Russ

Hi Russ,

Congratulations on your new baby Dean and thank your for your wonderful thoughts about my book and. I am sure baby Dean will grow up to be very special…how could he miss…especially being raised on Dean Martin music. I will be performing in New York the weekend of December 8th. Please check the web site for dates and time. I look forward to meeting our new Dean then.

Deana

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Dear Deana,
First of all just read your book -got thru it in record time- I can only repeat what others have said, sad and funny, but most of all such a personal touch that at times I felt like I was re-living your close personal memories with the incomparable Dino. You have to be taken aback at times at just how much your dad was loved by his fans and friends- a quick question, my son Danny, insists years ago he saw your dad on an advertisement that said he was going to be on the "Muppets show” I was not aware of him ever doing that show- please verify if he did and if so - is his appearance available on DVD. Thanks again for the wonderful warm feelings that filled my heart and even the tear or two that fluffed my eye reading about my favorite entertainer of all time- your beloved dad.

Chris

Hi Chris,

I am sorry to say that I do not recall my father ever doing the Muppets show. I wish it would have taken place…it would have been cute.

Deana

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Hi Deana,

Mine is not a question. I just feel the need to tell you that I have never been a fan of your fathers, unlike my husband, who has been a fan as long as he can remember, he is 58 years. After I read your wonderful account of your life as Dean Martin's daughter, I am hooked. I ran out the very morning after I finished the book and bought my very first Dean Martin cd. I know you get thousands of emails but I just had the need to let you know how moving your words were to me. Thank you!

Sincerely,
Louise A. Fontanella

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Dear Deana,

I am 45 years old and ever since I was a teenager (12) I loved your father. His singing, his acting and his great looks. That love never died and I still play his music in the car, at home and at the radio station I work at as a hobby. At the station I always get lots of response to his music from my older listeners. I would love to have the book you wrote about your father. Do you know if it is for sale in Holland?
Thank you for keeping the memory of this fantastic man alive.

Love,
Rina from the Netherlands

Dear Rina,

My publisher is currently in negotiations and I hope to have good news for you shortly.

Deana

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Hello Deana!
I really don't have a question, just want to say (like so many millions of others have probably said to you through the years) that I absolutely loved your dad. I am in my 40's, grew up in Weirton and now live about 4 hours away in Ohio. Every time we travel down we take a cd of your dad, and when we get to the sign for Dean Martin Boulevard, we put in "That's Amore" and sing in honor of "Dino." (My family would probably not admit to this, but they love it just as much as me). I know you had some very sad events in your life, but it certainly seems that your dad would have been a wonderful man to have for a father, and I'm glad to see you're keeping his memory alive with the festivals (one day I'm going to get down there!)

God Bless you and your family,
Kathy

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Dear Deana,
I would like to thank you for writing such an excellent book on your father. It is very well written and I enjoyed it very much.

I am sixteen and I live in the Southwest. I have been a fan of your fathers for about a year and a half. I enjoy his music, movies, and everything else he did so much. Every time I hear him sing, it just makes me smile.

I am so sorry to hear about Dean-Paul's passing. However, from the various books I have read on your father, very little information is shared about Dean-Paul. Can you share some information about him?

Thank You very much, Deana.
Megan

Hi Megan,

My brother Dean Paul was so very handsome and talented. We miss him terribly.

Deana

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Deana,

It is an honor to have this opportunity to communicate with you. I thank you for that. I have always been a fan of Dean Martin but it was recently with the infomercials on your Dad's TV shows. I would like to get many of his CD's but it's boggling my mind as I search the sites for a complete listing of Dean's albums and the songs contained on each. Can you help me by steering me in the "definitive" site where I view all the CDs? I would really appreciate it Deana. Again, thank you for this opportunity and hopefully someday you'll come to Buffalo NY!

Peace,
Michael Missert

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Hi Deana,
Did your Dad ever realize how much he was loved by his fans? Our family, "The Petrillis, gather every New Years' Eve and blast Dean Martin. 3 generations of us are still singing his songs.

God Bless,
Marilyn

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Dear Deana,

I have always been a huge fan of your father. I'm from Steubenville and my uncles grew up with your father. He is sadly missed. What a singer and actor.

God Bless,
Deacon Jeter, SSG (Ret)

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Hi Deana!

I loved your book!

Sincerely,

Kevin

Hi Kevin,

Thanks.

Deana

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Dear Deana and John,

We met at the book signing on June 17th at the festival. My wife Susan and I told you that I grew up in Atlantic City Near where the 500 Club used to be. We suggested that maybe some type of Dear Martin festival could be held in Atlantic City. I'm good friends with a couple of casino executives at the Borgota and Trump as well as the president of the Atlantic City Chamber of Commerce. If you would ever want to do something in Atlantic City I would be honored to help. It was great meeting you and John and I wish both of you the best.

Charles

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Dear Deana,

I am an Italian/American gal from the Midwest who was raised with the music and movies of your dad. He was my mom's favorite and now he is mine also. I think your book is great! You have wonderful way of writing, I felt as though I was part of your family! I will be in CA in August, are you still doing any book signings? Is his favorite restaurant still open?

Thanks for sharing your memories,
Marugerite

Hi Marugerite,

I am happy to announce that my publisher has asked me to do another book tour. I will be traveling across the country November and December and will hopefully be at a bookstore near you. I will post the dates and locations on my website shortly. My father's favorite restaurant is still open and still wonderful. It's called Da Vinci's Ristorante, and it's located at 9737 Santa Monica Blvd. Beverly Hills, CA 90212. Enjoy.

Deana

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Dear Deana,

Not a question, but a note of thanks. When I was being treated for cancer some 20 years ago, Dean Martin's songs were the ones I used to listen during my hard days of chemo for keeping my spirits up high. Now I have just finished Deana's book, "Memories Are Made Of This". I just want to thank Dean Martin for the sun he's brought to my life and to Deana for that wonderful book.

Ahmet Erozenci M.D
Professor of Urology
Istanbul, Turkey

Dear Dr. Erozenci,

I am happy to hear you are doing well and that my fathers music brought the sun into your life. I wish you continued good health and thank you for your kind words.

Deana

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Dear Deana and John,

Thanks for coming to Steubenville, Ohio and thank you so much for giving a signed book to my daughter. This meant a great deal to her and to me. It also demonstrated your compassion and humility. I look forward to seeing the two of you next year. Now for my question. How can I purchase one more signed book by you to my daughter Kayla? Thank you. You two make a great looking couple.

Take care,
Jefferson County Commissioner,
Dr. Thomas E. Graham

Hello Dr. Graham,

Thank you for your kind words. My husband John and I are honored to come to Steubenville each year to help do our part on behalf of the "Dean Martin Festival." I know my father would be very proud that the Dean Martin Scholarship helped 4 more Steubenville students attend college this year. Please tell Kayla that I am starting another book tour in November and we will be passing through Ohio. I look forward to seeing you both then.

Deana

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Hi, how are you? I love Deana!
She should come to Australia, they love her here!!

Thanks,
Travis

Hi Travis,

Thanks mate for the invite. My publisher in England has requested I make the trip down under to visit you blokes, especially since my book was #6 on your best seller list. So crank up the barbie Travis.

G'day,

Deana

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Dear Deana,

We now have access to your morning radio program in Memphis, TN (121.0 AM) and am so thankful for the wonderful music (classic Pop). You and Les Brown are doing a wonderful job. Keep up the good work!!! Just curious, what city and state are you broadcasting from?

Thanks,
Arline

Hi Arline,

Hello to you and all our friends in Memphis, TN listening to 121.0 AM. I'm glad to hear you are enjoying our show the 'Music Of Your Life'. Isn't Les cute? We have a great time playing our favorite music and sharing our stories. We are doing the show in Branson, MO and it's syndicated nationally. Happy listening.

Deana

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Dear Deana,

From 1972-1975 I spent about 6 hours a day with your dad, 5-6 days a week. You guessed it...golf at Riviera CC.
I met you once at your dad's second funeral service. You were kind enough to recognize that there were many people that wanted to show their respects. I gave you, a very tearful thank you at the time. My dad joined Riviera in 1944 and I was born in 1951. I have played Riviera since I was 7 years old. When I was about 10 my dad introduced me to your dad. Weeks later, Dean saw me and said "Hi Chris, how's your game?" I never forgot how special it made me feel that he remembered me. When I was 15 or 16 I started caddying in Dean's group. First for Art Anderson and then Bob Falkenburg. In 1969, I started caddying for Glen Campbell who also played with your dad. I went to San Diego State on a golf scholarship and when Barry Jaeckel (who caddied for your dad for about 3 years) turned professional, I asked Dean if I could have the job. Not only did he say yes, but also he told me that he would sponsor me on the tour when I was ready. The Crosby, Andy Williams' San Diego Open, The Bob Hope Classic, and of course Dean's tournament in Tucson were always special times.

Fondly,
Chris

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